Is
your relationship everything you want it to be?
Would you like your
partner to be more responsive, attentive and interested in your needs, wants and
desires, both in the bedroom and out?
There are very few relationships where both partners completely understand each
other and fulfill each others needs. Coaching for improved intimacy and
sexuality can truly put the spark back in a relationship. This is a healthy and
vital part of the day to day life of a well balanced relationship. I'll help you and your
partner discover intimate pleasures that save relationships and rekindle the
fire that all to often disappears. Our discussions will be frank, open and
honest. The results will astound, energize and excite you both!
Relationships
can exhilarate your life or drive you to drink.
The cornerstone of most adult lives,
relationships. Also the biggest cause of stress, headaches, heartaches, and a
multitude of other problems.
We all strive to find that perfect mate, some to share our lives with, someone
to share our dreams with, someone to support and defend us.
Unfortunately finding someone isn't usually the hard part, finding someone and
then keeping them and yourself happy is another matter.
It's in our genetic code, find SOMEONE. It's within ourselves to make sure we
work on making our relationships work out.
Life
is full of pleasant surprises and so is your partner.
COMMUNICATIONS:
There isn't a relationship in existence that hasn't needed some work from time
to time. Like life itself, the more we work at our relationships and strive to
make things better, the better things get. I can help you through rocky times
and to find a better life with your partner, as long as you are willing to work
at it. We've all been there, that big fight with our partner/spouse where you scream and
yell to make your point and then you both storm off in different directions to
contemplate our thoughts, wallow in our sorrow or to gloat at making our point
known, but the longer you are apart, the more you realize that no one really
wins these kind of arguments and the time and energy spent fighting them can be
put to much better use.
I can work with you to help you better communicate and to understand what
your partner/spouse expects and needs from you in order not to have simple
disagreements end in damaging arguments. Everyone disagrees from time to time,
it's knowing how to disagree, but not wind up in an argument, that takes some
time to master. I can help you through these times.
INTIMACY...
Sex and love making. All vitally important to a meaningful and
successful relationship, but many couples do not even understand the difference
and of those who do, can't seem to find a balance that suits their needs, wants
and desires.
In today's fast paced society, many people skip the intimacy and just focus on
the sex. This is a very big mistake, particularly for women, who require
intimacy to satisfy both their emotional and physical needs. But, intimacy
should not be viewed only as a prelude for sex, because it certainly isn't.
Regularly sharing warm tender moments is key to a great relationship. Intimacy
can be a simple touch or a brush against someone as you walk by them, even
sitting on the couch watching television or a great conversation can be
intimate. The key is the mindset and the feeling that is being
created.
Let me help you understand
the different needs you and your partner may have. Discovering true intimacy can
rekindle a relationship and spark a multitude of other emotions, resulting in a
more balanced love life and spilling over into increased production at work,
more focus, increased tolerance in stressful situations, increased sexual desire
and an overall healthier lifestyle.
SEX & LOVE MAKING
Let me be very clear that these are not the same thing. Our animal instincts and
physical needs tell us to have sex. Our emotional needs are for lovemaking and
intimacy. There also needs to be a balance of sex and lovemaking in a
relationship. The simple act of sex can be kinky, dirty, quick, hard or fast, it
is seldom slow, caring and gentle. These words are generally reserved to
describe the act of lovemaking, although not always. Confused? Many people are.
And many are simply afraid to ask for answers and even more are afraid to even
discuss the entire subject, let alone get into details about positions and how
to actually satisfy your partner, which should always be high on your list of
'must do', when you are having sex or making love.
So many couples have problems
telling each other what they want and need and even more have difficulty
discussing their problems with anyone.
While the subject may be difficult to discuss with friends or family, discussing
it can only make things easier as you are able to learn more about your own
wants and needs. Better physical contact, be it sex, intimacy or love making,
will only help your relationship.
Allow yourself the
opportunity to grow and enjoy this area of your life that is a completely
natural and beautiful act. Discussing your own needs and the things you want
from your partner and then learning how to ask for this can be a very
enlightening and rewarding experience. We can discuss this area of your life at
whatever level you feel comfortable at, but discussing how to make the changes
you want can only improve your relationship with your loved one.
PASSIVE RESISTANCE: We've all been there, asked a simple yes or no question, gotten an answer
and done what was agreed to, only to find ourselves in a fight or doing it. It's
amazing how we all say one thing and mean completely the opposite at times.
Knowing how to 'read' your partner/spouse is a major key to a successful
relationship and it is also a skill that many couples take years to develop or
sadly, never develop. Instinct, reading, level 3 listening or whatever you want
to call it, is a true key to learning how to not wind up in a fight with your
partner and how to defuse potentially devastating situations. Learning the
visual, physical, subtle and verbal cues that your partner is giving you, can
and will have a big impact on your own reactions to some questions or
situations.
I can help you recognize
the signals you are already receiving in many circumstances and currently don't
recognize. Being able to recognize the clues you are receiving can eliminate
many battles, arguments and 'chilly' nights.
Learn How to avoid mistakes that ruin relationships
Learn how to have more intimacy, more sex and better lovemaking!
Learn
how to make things 'flow' your way
Discover
how to eliminate problems, BEFORE they happen.
Enjoy
your partner, allow them to enjoy you. Be sure you both are getting what you
need
Remember,
If You Aren't Sure Life Coaching is For You,
The First Session is
FREE
if you decide not to
continue
You Always Have The
Option of Utilizing Our 'One Time Question' Section
Unfortunately finding someone isn't usually the hard part, finding someone and
then keeping them and yourself happy is another matter. 